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A Must Attend Event in 2011! Kidmin Conference!

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It's hard to believe I won't have to travel far to attend this amazing Children's Ministry conference!  Group is bringing a unique training and connecting event here to Chicago, Oct. 7-10th this year. Mark your calendars now!

I'm truly blessed to work along side some great minds in Children's Ministry, but I always love connecting with others.  I get new perspectives, unique inspiration, and the ability to see I'm not alone on this difficult journey when I attend conferences and connect with new people.

This conference is unique. It is more than just seminars and lectures, it is about relationships and connecting.  While the speaker/leader list is impressive, even more exciting is the realization that you'll get to connect with those doing what you do (or want to do!), have deeper learning and authentic conversations.  What is not to love about that!!

For more info check out the website for the Kidmin Conference and start planning now.  It promises to be an innovative training experience you do not want to miss!  Hope to see you there.

 

http://www.childrensministry.com/kidmin-conference

 

January 22, 2011 in Books, Training | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

Stabbing

41umaft7il__ss500_I started reading Deadly Viper, the newest book by Mike Foster and Jud Wilhite.  Already I can tell it is going to be good.  It's the type of book that every church leader needs to read from time to time to scare you silly into making sure your character doesn't lapse.  Plus it has great artwork that makes it fun to read.  I loved this quote they referenced in chapter 1:

"True friends stab you in the front."  --Oscar Wilde

The more influence I gain in ministry, the more I value those people in my life who will tell it to me straight.  Well, not the "I complain about everything" kind of people.  Definitely not the e-mail stabbers.  But the "I love you so much I'm going to stand here right in front of you and tell you the truth because I want what's best for you" kind of friend.  Don't get me wrong, I may not enjoy it in the moment, but I feel its value.  I have a few friends in my life who make me feel cherished but also are not afraid to say the hard word.  Of course their ability to stab me relies on my willingness to open myself up to the wound.  To put myself in a vulnerable position.  I'm not always good at this.  But when I do I know the result is something productive and maturing.  Even if there is a little blood.

February 28, 2008 in Books, Ministry Culture | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

The Dip

41igw7mwbtlI've been pondering this little book by Seth Godin lately.  It's called The Dip: A Little Book That Teaches You When to Quit (and When to Stick).  Seth points out that sometimes we quit the right things too quickly.  And on the flip side sometimes we don't quit the wrong things fast enough.  In an age where we all refer to ourselves as "too busy" and feel we have "too much" on our plates and that our resources are "too limited," I think it is worth asking the questions posed in this book.  Are we making the right decisions in "the Dip"...sticking with the things we can be best in the world at and quitting the things that are "Cul-de-Sacs?"  Here are some of the quotes I'm reflecting on:

When Jack Welch remade GE, the most fabled decision he made was this: If we can't be #1 or #2 in an industry, we must get out.  Why sell a billion-dollar division that's making a profit quite happily while ranking #4 in market share?  Easy.  Because it distracts management attention.  It sucks resources and capital and focus and energy.  And most of all, it teaches people in the organization that it's okay not to be the best in the world.  Jack quit the dead ends.  By doing so, he freed resources to get his other businesses through the Dip.

What does your community need your kids' ministry to be "best in the world" at?  What do you need to quit in order to focus more energy, focus, and resources in that area?

A woodpecker can tap twenty times on a thousand trees and get nowhere, but stay busy.  Or he can tap twenty thousand times on one tree and get dinner.

Is your busyness focused or scattered?

The Dip is actually your greates ally because it makes the project worthwhile...but wait, that's not enough.  Not only do you need to find a Dip that you can conquer but you also need to quit all the Cul-de-Sacs that you're currently idling your way through.  You must quit the projects and investments and endeavors that don't offer you the same opportunity.  It's difficult, but it's vitally important.

If you could only do one thing in your kids' ministry...one program, one initiative, one project...what would you do?

If quitting is going to be a strategic decision that enables you to make smart choices in the marketplace, then you should outline your quitting strategy before the discomfort sets in.  Just as a smart venture capitalist pressures the board of directors to have a plan in case they run out of money, every individual and every organization that wants to use quitting as a competative tool ought to have a plan about when it's time to quit.

Do you have a quitting strategy?  When you try a new project or program, do you have a set of criteria that will help you determine whether you need to push through the Dip or quit?

You and your organization have the power to change everything...How dare you squander that resource by spreading it too thin.  How dare you settle for mediocre just because you're busy coping with too many things on your agenda, racing against the clock to get it all done.  The lesson is simple: If you've got as much as you've got, use it.  Use it to become the best in the world, to change the game, to set the agenda for everyone else.  You can only do that by marshaling all of your resources to get through the biggest possible Dip.  In order to get through that Dip, you'll need to quit everything else.  If it's not going to put a dent in the world, quit.  Right now.  Quit and use that void to find the energy to assault the Dip that matters.  Go ahead, make something happen.  We're waiting!

February 04, 2008 in Books | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

Book Recommendation

41y3eagje9l__aa240_Just finished Made to Stick by Chip and Dan Heath.  It's a book that explores the question why some ideas survive and others die.  I added the book to my "Recent Reads" list on the side, but it will probably also make my "Favorites" list.  What sticks?  The authors suggest it's ideas that are Simple, Unexpected, Concrete, Credible, Emotional, and tell Stories (SUCCESs).  The best part of this book is the authors take their own advice and tell lots of stories and examples that hold your interest and equip you to apply the principles.  If you have any responsibility for crafting talks, casting vision, or promoting ideas; I'd recommend giving it a read.   

June 17, 2007 in Books | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

Book Recommendation

One_thingI just finished a great leadership book by Marcus Buckingham that I thought I'd recommend to you.  If you've never read Buckingham, I'm a big fan (notice his first two books in my recommended reading section).  His third book, The One Thing You Need to Know, delves into three controlling insights about great managing, great leading, and sustained individual success.  He shares the "one thing you need to know" about each of these areas.  I love how Buckingham filters through lots of noise to clearly define simple principles, yet leaves you with much to consider about that simplicity.  If you like to read books on leadership (and hopefully you do!), check this one out.

March 01, 2007 in Books | Permalink | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0)

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